Dave von Fintel

Filmmaker/Photographer specializing in Aerial Cinematography


  • Filmmaker specializing in Aerial Cinematography2014 - Present

    Kansas City, MO

    I'm taking my creative skills to new heights - piloting a UAV to produce dramatic aerial video/photo solutions as well as producing & editing conventional video for a variety of industries.

  • Freelance Creative Director2012 - 2014


  • Web Development Director2004 - 2012

    Rockhurst University

  • Creative Director1999 - 2004

    Rockhurst University

  • Art Director1998 - 1999

    Rockhurst University

  • Graphic Designer1997 - 1998

    GB Design


  • Bachelor of Fine Arts (BFA), Graphic Design1991 - 1996

    University of Missouri

  • Graphic Design, Photography & Video Production1995 - 1996

    University of Tasmania School of Art, Australia


  • “Dave has exceptional skills as a designer and web developer. As his supervisor for several years, I found him to be a joy to work with, and a great team player. He is a problem-solver who finds a solution to every challenge. I would not hesitate to hire him again.”

    Rosita McCoy, Senior VP - KU Endowment Association

  • “I’ve had the pleasure of working with Dave on many projects. He’s always able to bring a fresh perspective to every job. His positive personality and openness to trying new things, makes working with him a very fun & collaborative event.”

    Mark McDonald, Owner - Mark McDonald Photography

  • “I worked with Dave for several years while employed at gb Design. Dave and I collaborated on a variety of design projects and I always found him to be easy to work with and valued the ideas and professionalism he brought to the table. Since that time, my agency has had the pleasure to work with Dave and his team at Rockhurst as a vendor providing online development solutions and consulting to Rockhurst University. Dave continues to provide impressive direction and management skills to the projects we have conducted with him and his team.”

    Ryan Lorei, Owner - Voltage Creative

  • “In the seven years Dave and I worked together, I watched him consistently come up with effective, creative solutions for various print, web and video projects. He stays on top of design trends and web standards, and everything he touches looks refined and professional. He has exceptional talent and lots of ideas, which made him a valuable member of our team.”

    Jamie Swearingen, UX Copywriter - Garmin International

  • “I have hired Dave may times for his expert graphic design services, and have also brought him in as a consultant on several high profile web design and development projects. Dave's ability to listen to my client's needs, and his ability to translate their ideas into reality are second to none.”

    Matt Couch, Real Estate Analyst - Hopkins Appraisal Services


  • • CASE (Council for Advancement and Support of Education): Silver Award
- '09, Excellence in Multimedia: Single Web Page (Ready for Rockhurst) 
- Bronze - '02, Rockhurst University Alumni Magazine 
- Silver - '01, Rockhurst University Alumni Magazine
 - Gold - '00, Rockhurst University Alumni Magazine Cover 
- Silver - '00, Rockhurst University Campus Banners 
• Web Marketing Association's Web Awards Judge - '08 
• JAA (Jesuit Advancement Administrators): '06 - Award of Merit: Multimedia, Admission Pages 
• Internet Advertising Competition '05 - Best Education Integrated Ad Campaign - Rockhurst Website 
• Center for Digital Education: '05 Best of the Web 2nd place, Rockhurst University 
• Web Marketing Association: '05 Best Education Internet Advertising Award, Rockhurst University 
• American Association of Webmasters: '04 Silver Award, Rockhurst University 
• Mead Papers: Certificate of Excellence in the Graphic Arts - Rockhurst University, 1999 Annual Report

Visit Instagram/davevonfintel for frequently updated shots. Some of my work features footage that may be purchased as stock video or photo.


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Just how to tell gf I do not wish to satisfy without hurting her emotions?

My girlfriend and I have actually “fixed” times we come across one another, because we generally don’t possess time on other times.

Sometimes, it happens that her training gets cancelled and she’s got time that evening & most times i really do have time, too. I will be fine then asks if we want to meet and I say “Yes” if she.

The circumstances I am not fine with conference is then her training got cancelled if we met like four days in a row and over the weekend (we often spend the whole 48h together) and. On these occasions i want to involve some right time for myself, e.g. playing Computer games (i would like this every once in awhile to relax completely) and as a consequence I decline her question if I would like to meet.

Whenever we decrease, it hurts her emotions. I really do recognize that rejection hurts, and so I would like in order to inform her I do not would you like to meet without hurting her.

She does understand that i would like from time to time a little bit of time and energy to flake out for myself and she does realize it. We currently seriously considered having her think about any of it, if i wish to meet for the reason that time by by herself, but i believe if she performs this and comes into the summary that I do not would you like to meet, it’s going to harm her just the same. I will be actually away from some ideas on how best to manage these circumstances.

We’re both from the culture that is same nation (Germany). She actually is near to 20 and I also am 20. I already informed her that I sometimes need time for myself (it is not a scheduled meeting or something like that, it really is my extra time)

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Having been right here I think you need to realize what this means for your relationship before myself. That you do not feel in a position to relax and also you-time along with her around. That is probably on yourself when you spend time with her, but also want to be able to shed those responsibilities at times and do what you’re interested in without making her happiness your responsibility from moment to moment because you place a set of responsibilities.

That is fine, but i believe which you should also understand that 1 day, in the event that relationship goes very well, you certainly will are now living in the same house and share a bedroom. You’ll not manage to simply take per day in the home from your relationship along with her then, meaning you’ll want to make certain that the character of one’s relationship is in a way that both both you and she will share exactly the same room, without experiencing under some pressure to “act the girl/boyfriend https://www.hookupme.net/.”

And so I think it is vital to consider what components of your relationship stand when you look at the means of you having you-time whenever this woman is physically present. Does she maybe not enjoy (or perhaps is actively critical of?) your hobbies? If so, however think you ought to alter the dynamics of one’s relationship making sure that she understands that your pastime is very important to you personally, and that in the event that two of you spend sufficient time together, you will invest a number of the period doing a hobby she does not enjoy, and she will either join you or take action that passions her on the very own.

Is she an extrovert (being stimulated by attention) while you’re an introvert (being exhausted by attention?) If so you need to explain this to her. The comic that is following be a helpful aid whenever having this conversation:

Will you be placing mental needs on your self, in her existence, that she doesn’t hold one to? In that case, you will need to acknowledge that and free your self of your very own expectations which can be making you maybe not enjoy too much effort spent together, when it comes to good regarding the relationship. Remind your self that in case your putting this pressure on yourself requires time aside, and that hurts her, then your standard you are keeping yourself to is really hindering both of your satisfaction of this relationship.

Fundamentally, one of the keys is honesty. Just tell her the way you feel. Should this be hard for you personally, my experience is if you just tell her you are sorting away some feelings about your relationship, she’s going to ask one to share them (and genuinely like to hear them.) many people will surprise you with how appreciative they’ve been of honesty, even though you are being honest about something they dislike. The hurt feelings are temporary, nevertheless the trust your honesty builds is lesty builds is lasting.

Just be sure you want, but why you want it if you explain not just what. You’re redefining the relationship perhaps not as you’re not happy because you want to create a dynamic between the two of you that can work for both of you long term with her, but. Let her realize that you’ve that you have been doing things only for her, and should be allowed to do more on your own, or else you do not think that the connection can perhaps work, and also you desire to make it work. Tong-labeen doing things simply for her, and have to be permitted to do more on your own, or else you do not think that the relationship could work, and you also would you like to make it happen. Tong-lasting.

You need to be sure you want, but why you want it if you explain not just what. You are redefining the connection not as you’re unhappy along with her, but as you wish to develop a dynamic involving the both of you that will work with the two of you long term. Let her realize that you have been doing things simply for yourself, otherwise you don’t think that the relationship can work, and you want to make it work for her, and need to be allowed to do more. The changes actually represent a larger dedication to her, not less of just one, though it means time invested together where you’re less attentive toward her. Be certain she realizes that.

Some individuals (especially guys) have difficulty dealing with their feelings, but it is essential to weave your feelings into such a discussion. “I feel exhausted as soon as we spend too enough time together. Then we ask for time aside and feel bad because I do not wish to hurt you.” Most women, if you ask me, really appreciate this given that it allows them to feel nearer to you. After they realize the emotions that motivate you, they do not believe that you pulling away is an indication of emotional distance, just you requiring something which they could offer you to aid the connection. They are going to appreciate you being truthful regarding how you’re feeling them to understand you better and trust you more because it allows.